He Told Me To Leave Him Alone

God will never forsake you when you belong to Him; this much is true as well. There was something in. He tells me daily that he hates me, which I am so used to that now it just rolls off my shoulders. The final text came last week when I texted him something that I knew wasn't true to see if he would respond. I know I could have ended up being with him a lot longer because every time I would try to leave he came back after me. If there are some unsolved matters between him and his ex, it should be between them not you. He doesn’t like to be pushed so if you push him to that limit; you may want to take a step back because his response is not likely to be very kind. Not only will he be embarrassed, but chances are that he’ll get in trouble from his boss as well. all of these young kids that want to leave. by Matt Slick "The Lord spoke further to me, saying, 'I have seen this people, and indeed, it is a stubborn people. Three days ago we were laughing, hugging and kissing and last night he never really loved me. He also told me that his mother blames herself because he is “alone” and his inability to show much emotion or plan with her. These are the first signs that your husband wants a divorce, but he may not be saying it out loud. Bcos he can't trust me as I asked his friends to help me make him understand hw I hate name calling. At one point he came to my hotel room. Don’t let this man, or your family prevent you from enjoying your life, and being happy. Guys can tell you a lot about their inner desires through their body language. [27] Baggett raised his M1911 pistol and fired four shots into the cockpit, hitting the pilot; [28] the Zero stalled and crashed. Watch Queue Queue. My partner turns cold whenever we get to close. When the family find Frank has opened a homeless shelter, they attempt to stop him but Frank tells them to leave him alone because of their acts on him. I’ll ask him to brush his teeth, and he told me no. I don’t know about you, but respect has never come easily to me. i don’t understand why some of you ladies complain about that it. Now he won't leave me alone. Sometimes, even when you know that you need to leave someone alone and give yourself space as well, it’s hard to be disciplined and follow through with it. My eldest child, who is 7, likes to be alone. How foolish of me when the Author is desirous to teach me! Many years ago Henry Ford was driving down a highway. Since there was already a venue I had in mind, I decided to simply inform him of the particulars (date, time, meeting place) and take him there. "Hermione just go away, leave me alone," was all he replied still sounding different. My Handyman, My Soap Star. Most tell me to not even be his friend. Yell at him, tell him to get a life and leave you alone. The industry made him take his own life. He told me this back in October. Sometimes our judgment is clouded. Last night I told him that I was not ok with him giving me the silent treatment because it is hurtful, i feel like it is a punishment, and doesn't get us anywhere. i am just so dumbfounded about all this, i know that forever is long…. I told him I missed him and wanted him to spend less time alone in his room. Everyone tells me to let him go. When I told him that his actions hurt me, he played it off and told me that he sometimes really isn't sure if we're just both wasting our time with eachother, as he isn't sure if he might be happier alone and he doesn't want to hurt me by just dragging out a relationship that he might not really want to be in. Hello, I just brought home a 14 week old golden doodle puppy yesterday. When I told him I feel alone and hurt he told me I need to get a life and that he's not responsible for my happiness. Regardless of what we tell ourselves, some relationships are just irreparable. I have strong feelings for him but does he feel the same? – Question asked by Theresa. He had dragged three of his young children with him. So I complied. He will not leave you alone until he knows that you want him too. I am into a relationship with this particular guy, he was born on the 10th of August. So I didn't message him. Ignoring A Narcissist. The relationship was becoming serious. This past week, he asked if we could please plan a day of summer vacation to just stay home and not run. If he doesn't call you back after the first time, it's a sign. But it’s even more difficult when your ex won’t leave you alone after the breakup. Then NJ called a week later… And thats a post for the new blog. David tells him that he's the little league captain, the one who told him to mess up the Sandlot, so they'll leave and he and his team could practice. He bent down and looked through the wide keyhole. He told me he doesn t love me anymore but when I asked him to move out he turned it around on me and told me it was my decision. If you’re open to something casual you must know that that’s what it is. He wanted to take me to lunch which I refused. Of course he told me that he got into an argument over me and got punched, na that wasn't true, I believe him of course at first and waited on him hand and footfor days until I learned the truth, when I confronted him, he said everyone was jealous of the love we have, and their trying to break us up. He's obsessed with me. The relationship was becoming serious. my son is 32 years old. He acts like an ass in public. He will gently take leave and allow me to study the Book alone. But he’s told me that if I back off and leave him alone to have thinking space and stuff like that he’ll consider stuff. He walked down the hall to the door and tried the handle. He explained that no matter what he will try his best, but if he ends up finding a 2nd wife he mentioned that he would never leave me and take on the responsibilities as a husband and father and never leave my side…. He’s not looking for a relationship but he knows you like him. Why does he text me and then ignore me? Home More advice Love & Relationships Okay, so I've had a crush on this guy I work with since August of this year, for awhile he didn't even pay attention to me, so I got to liking him even more, I used to love to go to work, and my work sucks. Even necessary. Just because your husband is a jerk doesn’t mean you aren’t called to respect him. “Go back and speak with him today. Everyone tells me to let him go. i dont know why he has to hurt me like this. If your time together isn't enough to keep him with you, reminding him about it isn't going to help. Whenever she disagreed with him, he would run away from conversations. Sometimes our judgment is clouded. His dad called wanting to talk to LE, and I was forced to tell him the boy was sick and sleeping. Al075484 yegrs od, bs aillic Handsome, well cared for, great smile, Friendly, mellow, tolerant, likes kids, housetrained, a pleasure on a walking leash, takes treats gently - Neutered and Ready 2 Goll ove me. I couldn't believe it because I wanted to please Him and I thought that would be displeasing. I wonder if he knows how hard it is for me to leave him alone when all I want is to be with him, or talk with him. He didn’t press charges but I’m still in this legal mess. I told him I missed him and wanted him to spend less time alone in his room. I’m fairly traditional and feminine (I’m not a tomboy by any means. He flowers you with praise and romance…but then flirts with other women, while avoiding you. Last weekend I caused a bit of a hullabaloo by posting a Reader Question that said, “I’ve gained 25 pounds since we had kids, and now my husband doesn’t find me attractive. An attention seeking dog can be quite challenging to live with. And I didn't want to tread on her, honestly. Al075484 yegrs od, bs aillic Handsome, well cared for, great smile, Friendly, mellow, tolerant, likes kids, housetrained, a pleasure on a walking leash, takes treats gently - Neutered and Ready 2 Goll ove me. My husband and I have been separated for 2 months. She told him that he was finished, and that she would leave him alone if he went into town the next day and tell everyone what he did. But now, he is done and as asked me to leave him alone. I also told him if he's not willing to be there for me, then he must MUST leave me alone completely so I can heal, and get better. Despite telling him repeatedly to leave me alone and ignoring his calls to check up on me for a solid 5 months (he would call every 3 to 4 weeks), I got weak and answered his call on Christmas and then on New Years Day. In it, you will learn five ridiculously effective ways to pull on his heartstrings, make him miss you, and keep dying to spend more time with you. Tell him, bluntly, what you want and if he doesn’t want that, then you need to stop seeing him and he needs to stop contacting you. He told me that he didn't want me to leave him because He knows he would regret it. :( he broke up with me. we have two kidz together n it is being five yrs sins he lost his job n i have bein struggling alone wit my kidz n house hold staff,i also pay rent evrything is on my shoulders i have lost hope nw. Don’t hesitate to lean on your friends and family for emotional support! Before leaving, try to set up a separate bank account so you can be financially independent. However, he doesn't extend this to Liam and lets him be apart of his new family. This is what results in aggression and thus ultimately blocking you. And I went and made myself some dinner. I was really skeptical before i wrote to him and he told me not to worry about anything, that i should give him a day for him to cast a spell for me and after 2 days i was really surprised my ex called me and started begging for me to take her back. Well he went and told my wife and in which turn she blew up on me and argued and said I need to move out the house and she. “I did speak to him. ” I was on a suicide mission of my own for months and landed in hospital after I tried to overdose with tranquilizers. It Gives Him The Opportunity To Miss You. So what he’s doing instead is getting you to dislike him enough to end the relationship yourself. He does all of it: lying by omission, gaslighting, non-committal behaviours…THE WORKS. (It’s not fair but it’s true. '" World English Bible Then Jesus said to him, "Get behind me, Satan! For it is written, 'You shall worship the Lord your God, and you shall serve him only. 😉 it's been over a week since I heard from him and I feel crushed because maybe I should be texting him asking him how he is etc. Tim Bergling commiting suicide makes it even harder for me. ’ Well, that’s a good name. I slapped him. We've been separated for about two weeks and now he is saying that he wants to be alone permanently. He wanted to see her every night, until one day when he stopped returning her calls and texts. Unai Emery says he’s had a number of conversations with Shkodran Mustafi in which he’s told the German he can leave the club. he told me go back to hawaii, where your family is. ” Images: Istock. Well he went and told my wife and in which turn she blew up on me and argued and said I need to move out the house and she. This went on for 3 miserable years. You want him. Unless you want to get back together with him, you should stop answering his calls so much. Stefan spares Damon's life but Damon tries to tell him that he did it to help him. Romeo told Benvolio to turn away and leave him alone. Sure enough it was locked. my son is 32 years old. You just have to let go and move on. Tell Habit you will not leave if he lets you go. But what if he comes back. Im leaving him alone now, will he want me back?. Let him know that you appreciate the little things he does and that you don’t ask for much. pull away physically or threaten to leave just to see what he. I asked him to text me if he is thinking of bringing someone home as a curtesy, I explained if I am out then I will stay out longer so he can have some privacy. ? 3 weeks of no contact as he asked me to leave him alone. 2 – Don’t give him all the benefits of a relationship before he’s committed to one. That I need space and that I need to be away from him to feel better. He can break her mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. He also asked for bread and was given some of the holy bread usually reserved for the priests and their families. According to him he is a happy guy and does nothing wrong, so he refuses to do counselling, but tells me he can’t imagine life without me. I dont Know what I did wrong. That he love me and he is a man who have a lot on his plate. 37 things a girl probably doesn't know about a guy wrong&tells me to leave him alone, he's always asking me if im going out with someone, does that mean he likes. :( what Shuld I do. Otello describes the battles he had told her about. Perhaps he is not even aware you are hurt by the things he says, and although he may not be intentionally hurting you, he needs to be aware of your feelings. I just want him to leave me alone. Ignoring A Narcissist. At first it was all ok, but after a few days I'd ask him something and he just told me he was tired of me. And they say (that he's gonna hurt me) Just wait and see (but they don't know me) 'cause I am what he wants his girl and I love it (oh) [Hook:] I can't leave 'em alone I tried that good boy game But the dope boy's turning me on It's just that he know what I want So bad, I love that, I can't leave 'em alone I can't leave 'em alone I tried that game. I want to leave him, but I’m scare of his reaction. You are not alone. lies he tell his friends that I abused him (which in not true) about me. God will never forsake you when you belong to Him; this much is true as well. ever come meddling around, he must hop out of the wigwam, and carry on a little, and fetch a howl or two like a wild beast, and he reckoned they would light out and leave him alone. " So why is he in trouble for respecting her wishes? This is an age-old question. Say with a serious face that you have an appointment and leave him alone. Don’t tell me a 4 hour. We told him it was still early, but he wouldn't listen. He is crazy. what you do is literally leave him alone because your not going to get the response you want from this guy cause he doesn't care about your feelings. They let him call her up and come over whenever he’s around, they break plans for him, come and look after him when he’s ill, the list goes on…. Watch Queue Queue. So it made me realise what a long term battle he's been having. Last night I told him that I was not ok with him giving me the silent treatment because it is hurtful, i feel like it is a punishment, and doesn't get us anywhere. Since then, he said his family has asked him to go to church and bring his partner, Gary Gardner. How foolish of me when the Author is desirous to teach me! Many years ago Henry Ford was driving down a highway. 37 things a girl probably doesn't know about a guy wrong&tells me to leave him alone, he's always asking me if im going out with someone, does that mean he likes. On Sunday, Sept. He can cheat on her and disrespect her. I won't go into details about how he abused me, it was abuse in every way possible. He became violent. Since he told you to leave him alone, he would be upset if you still tried to contact him and go against what he told you. The best solution would be to leave him alone and in that way, make him miss you. If you’re open to something casual you must know that that’s what it is. However another part of me wants to end myself here because he is the only pure thing in my life. " He hasn't contacted me, has no idea I moved to a different city, doesn't know anything about me. He's actually already witnessed my "drama", I've already dated him. The guy before him was just as bad standing me up and blaming me for stuff, this time around I demanded he say that I leave him alone, that I wouldn't stop texting him until he did. He writes and podcasts on a bunch of things wellness. He blocked me from all social medias. If he responds confidently but doesn't try to further the conversation, you should treat that as a sign to leave him alone. Johnnie then tells David that he doesn't know any Singleton, he doesn't know about any little league, and he doesn't play baseball, and rockets were his life. But these sure signs tell you a lot more and confirm your suspicion – my husband wants a divorce. Back in January, I needed him to do some work for me. These are the first signs that your husband wants a divorce, but he may not be saying it out loud. Why do they say you should just leave him alone? If you keep pestering him or forcing your way into his life, he’ll start to feel smothered – and then run even faster…. What he's doing isn't fair to you, his wife, or his children, and he needs to. Watch Queue Queue. He is 39 years old and never been married. “He Won’t Leave Me Alone Despite Me Telling Him That I’m Not Interested In Him”. It also means he's not your guy! Leave him alone and move on. He says that he doesn’t really have any desire to spend time with any other human being. Colonies are generally made up of related cats. You want him. This of course makes me wonder if the opposite is true for him. “What do I do when my dog won’t leave me alone? He’s extra clingy. if someone told me to stop talking to them it would be. But only once. I told him what I did and why and asked him if he was willing to give it a try and he said he would quit, but that he didn’t want to be sick. As you’ve noticed being the nice woman is not paying off. He let me know his feelings a few months after my partner died , he said he wanted sex as he hadnt had sex with his wife for 3 years as he no longer found her sexually attractive , but he said from the start he would not leave his wife and would not allow himself to have any feelings for me. Let's leave him alone. Fiona soon watches her siblings protest Frank's choice but he tells her along with his other children to leave him alone since they have shown him how they feel (throwing him off a bridge, insulting him, and kicking him out) and sends them off. You just have to let go and move on. That that was my responsibility on how I decided to react, not his, therefore I couldn’t take responsibility for anything he has done. “Kourtney told him that she is going to leave him broke, and by the time she is done with him he will never get another job on TV again,” the insider has revealed, adding, “He is already hurting financially since the breakup, but she wants to make sure he is in financial ruin. In it, you will learn five ridiculously effective ways to pull on his heartstrings, make him miss you, and keep dying to spend more time with you. He doesn't bother me a bit. His teammates, rather than pressing him to Never Split The Party (as he probably expected), say, "Fine, you can just wait here alone. He told me that I had 48 hours to move out. Maybe it’s him realizing it is hard to make it work and it probably never will and he just wanted to be alone, maybe he got sick of me, maybe it’s something else I just wish he would tell me. treating them like they were invisible. This video is unavailable. But by then, it was too late, I had already fallen for M. He pushes me away. But I was wrong. Commonly known by their first names, Larry, Moe, & Curly (sometimes spelled "Curley"); Larry, Moe & Shemp; and other lineups became famous for their work in movies and starred in many short features that consisted of masterful ways. That first contact is fine. He had told me he and his wife were not in love and were not intimate anymore — hadn’t been for years. He is my teacher. Don't dwell on him as it will do you no good. 'get up and leave' “Leave me alone!” I cried, petrified, struggling to ignore the nauseous feeling in my stomach Administrative leave After I finish/leave school allowed to leave An eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind and then decide to leave them alone. Here are 15 signs that he’s trying to make you leave him. Start seeing other people after you leave him alone. It Gives Him The Opportunity To Miss You. i am just so dumbfounded about all this, i know that forever is long…. I was really skeptical before i wrote to him and he told me not to worry about anything, that i should give him a day for him to cast a spell for me and after 2 days i was really surprised my ex called me and started begging for me to take her back. President Donald Trump applauded his son-in-law, Jared Kushner, for pushing him on criminal justice reform and noted that he "could be a liberal. He writes and podcasts on a bunch of things wellness. He came but told me real quick he don’t have the time for my bs. but he keeps telling me that he likes me and he felt something different the first time he saw me. My oldest son is a really good kid. She was a coworker you see. What does it mean when MEN says "I need to be alone"? but he needs you to leave him alone so he can do it. Whenever she disagreed with him, he would run away from conversations. He intentionally embarrasses you in public and makes you feel stupid in front of your friends. Drifting away is completely natural for a man, even if he’s in love with you. Sometimes, break-ups are right and you both know for sure it's over for good, but other times, you just can't stop thinking about him, even after everything is said and done. I went to bed. He was a regular there, as was/is she. I also dont know how to tell my feancee i want to leave him. : ‘Leave Him Alone…He Has Paid Heavily’” You can’t claim to be a victim if you already told him before he did it that you were okay with it. But he’s also going to tell us definitively what Russia tried to do in 2016,” Gowdy said. 2 days ago I divorced him. There’s more to the actual break up that would take a lot of time to tell about, so I’ll leave it out. Breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend is hard to do. Hitler was a very great man. My Husband Wants to Leave Me I can’t tell all of you how much I love this man! He did agree to go to marriage counseling with me, but he says that he is going. Today he told me if I change my behaviour, maybe he will change his thought of me. But I was wrong. Don’t hesitate to lean on your friends and family for emotional support! Before leaving, try to set up a separate bank account so you can be financially independent. Then gather all your strength and keep walking into the unknown towards something better. I have tried to contact him and he has mostly ignore me. I asked him a couple times to leave me alone…. If you said that, he would dump her in a second. “We just got to a place where, in order for this to work, this can’t be fake. Leave him alone, and let him curse, for the L ord has told him to. "Another reason I'm not sure about leaving is when I've told him I'm not happy and thinking about leaving he's told me he'd want nothing to do with me and wouldn't see his kids. Back in January, I needed him to do some work for me. He also told me that I had made him want to leave by snapping at him and changing my mind about wanting to participate in swinging. But by then, it was too late, I had already fallen for M. Me and my boyfriend had a silly argument its kinda my fault he'd had a busy busy day at work finally got home to rest, we were texting each other and we had a little row, he told me didn't have energy to speak to just text him I called him anyway he was like "I'm so tired I have no energy to speak I. However, once he realizes that you will not be waiting around for him, he will feel compelled to act if he does not want to lose you. I’m fairly traditional and feminine (I’m not a tomboy by any means. “Leave me alone” was said because I’ve told him I didn’t want this anymore numerous times in the past and he kept pestering me. One you want to pay attention to. He told me to leave him alone. Colonies are generally made up of related cats. Watch Queue Queue. He wants to know if she will tell them. my bdad, says to leave it alone, it will only make it. However, he cannot be left alone with kids. i don’t understand why some of you ladies complain about that it. I asked him a couple times to leave me alone…. I’ll ask him to brush his teeth, and he told me no. now he’s confused, i think i’m falling for him already. We have a big age difference and he emailed later and said he just didn't think it would work because of that. Why does he text me and then ignore me? Home More advice Love & Relationships Okay, so I've had a crush on this guy I work with since August of this year, for awhile he didn't even pay attention to me, so I got to liking him even more, I used to love to go to work, and my work sucks. He did however keep me on fb but never spoke to. I can’t tell you what this has done for me in this relationship. ? 3 weeks of no contact as he asked me to leave him alone. my son is 32 years old. The Stranger (2014) Movie Script. Can’t you see that he’s already dead?" "No!" I yelled. You have nothing to lose by leaving. They either have it for you or they dont. He said some really hurtful things like he doesn't think our relationship is working and that he doesn't want to have kids with me because he doesn't think I'd be a good mother. We had talked about that and I told him how it made me feel and that he just had to give me some time to be. " He hasn't contacted me, has no idea I moved to a different city, doesn't know anything about me. If he sees that you’re enjoying your life without him, he may be a little jealous, and come to realize that he still loves you after all. It takes time adjusting and getting used to being alone. "You leave him alone. In My Dog Won’t Leave Me Alone you’ll learn how to teach your dog to settle so you can relax You’ll discover what causes attention seeking dogs to misbehave and find plenty of links to resources which will help you overcome the problems discussed here. He did not leave his religion at the door when he set out on a medical visit – he was known to pray for his patients, and believed that he himself had been cured of angina by a visiting faith. Since there was already a venue I had in mind, I decided to simply inform him of the particulars (date, time, meeting place) and take him there. He then played dead in his harness, hoping the Japanese would leave him alone. Men who are interested and serious about you are not going to leave you alone to. Essentially to get a Scorpio man to miss you, you need to move on with your life but leave a spot for him in your heart. But Ender knew, even as he thought it, that Peter wouldn't leave him alone. David asked for a sword and was given the sword of Goliath, which he had taken from the Philistine when he killed him. He told me to leave him alone. I’m fairly traditional and feminine (I’m not a tomboy by any means. This is what results in aggression and thus ultimately blocking you. I miss him he hasn't tried talking to me. " He hasn't contacted me, has no idea I moved to a different city, doesn't know anything about me. I told him what I did and why and asked him if he was willing to give it a try and he said he would quit, but that he didn’t want to be sick. My husband didn't leave me while he was having an affair. then he doesn't even talk to me even i told him that i understand him and accept his pastpls give me explanation and how to handle this thing. But he is so very lazy. He promised me to always stay by my side no matter what and he told me he. He was worried what would happen if he filled the pot. Asking you to leave him alone for some time and nothing else is a little puzzling since you’ve been together for 3 years. It Gives Him The Opportunity To Miss You. Replacements used to help distract him but he always stalked everyone. Texts You Should Never Send Him. give him a chance ot miss me, to make him realise he has to sort himself out to get what he wants, or decide if he really does wnat it. not a manipulation to leave him feeling like he has to be with you or else he is a total jerk to abandon you and reject you. So once you leave him alone and give him some space, he will start to think and try to sort out his problems. To even some tranvestites. Here are 15 signs that he’s trying to make you leave him. when we move him out of his breeder yesterday he is so much afraid outside,and now he still make some noises and eat a little food ,its hard for me and my sister to take care of him because it is our first time to take care a labrador dog. I stood up to him and told him I was gonna buy one. Also, what helps me to keep an eye at him is watching him online to see what he is doing, and I see that he usually sleeps the entire time when left alone. If he texts, text him back. If so, you are not alone. He wanted to breakup with me face to face , so we meet at our usual place and he told me that I should not call or text or roam around his office and while I was going home he told me that we can be friends and I can text him on Instagram if I want. After all, were it you telling a guy to leave you alone, you would want the guy to respect your wishes, else it might turn ugly. Hello, I just brought home a 14 week old golden doodle puppy yesterday. i in turn sent him a letter saying i was sorry for making the foolish mistake of doing what i did and for him to accept the apology. When a guy overlooks the warning signs that his girlfriend is giving him, he is usually surprised when she says, "Leave me alone" and doesn't care about losing him. While he couldn't see her clearly, he knew who it was. "(14) Barboe's Testimony Samuel Barboe testified that Sension "proferred me a bushel of corn if I would put down my breeches. or only on the weekends. I left it again then did the same thing for another 5days asking him if he didnt want to be with me then tell me he replied “stop it, I’m getting sick of you, I’m busy” so I left him alone for 6days then I contacted him again off and on I’ve been doing this for the past 2weeks now. In it, you will learn five ridiculously effective ways to pull on his heartstrings, make him miss you, and keep dying to spend more time with you. The Stranger (2014) Movie Script. So if you love me, let me go. Get him enrolled in some hobby, a course, his work, or another date. Hunting down a podium at Long. One you want to pay attention to. He wanted to, as well. Another part of me would really like his friendship back. My 44 year old husband was starting a relationship with a 22 year old that he met online at a dating website. Him blocking me wasn’t a final metaphorical slap in the face, but rather a necessary step for him to move on. He later walked by a house and saw a happy family eating together. In the end, he decided to stay with me and save the marriage. You Cannot Leave a Person Living with Alzheimer's Alone It is an enormous sacrifice but you cannot leave a person living with dementia at home alone. “What do I do when my dog won’t leave me alone? He’s extra clingy. Sure enough it was locked. If, however, he seems shy and doesn't try to further the conversation, then he might be really into you, but he is afraid of saying something stupid, or of stumbling over his words. I miss him he hasn't tried talking to me. Feral cats (domesticated cats that have grown up in the wild) also hunt and sleep alone. Take Alastor with you,” Dumbledore instructed. 'get up and leave' “Leave me alone!” I cried, petrified, struggling to ignore the nauseous feeling in my stomach Administrative leave After I finish/leave school allowed to leave An eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind and then decide to leave them alone. Why He Pulls Away. If you want your boyfriend to leave you alone, you will need to tell him how you feel. now he’s confused, i think i’m falling for him already. Why do they say you should just leave him alone? If you keep pestering him or forcing your way into his life, he'll start to feel smothered - and then run even faster…. He said some really hurtful things like he doesn’t think our relationship is working and that he doesn’t want to have kids with me because he doesn’t think I’d be a good mother.